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For anyone who hasn’t noticed, I’ve switched my main blog to itstherealjay.tumblr.com

Thu, 02 May 2013 12:19:51 -0400

For anyone who hasn’t noticed, I’ve switched my main blog to itstherealjay.tumblr.com

itstherealjay: Sorry, I never learned how to give up.

Mon, 29 Apr 2013 22:46:01 -0400

itstherealjay:

Sorry, I never learned how to give up.

itstherealjay: Honestly never thought I’d end with someone like...

Sat, 09 Mar 2013 14:24:45 -0500

itstherealjay:

Honestly never thought I’d end with someone like her. She’s different from anyone else I’ve ended up and right now it feels like we’ve gone through hell and back and we’re still going back and forth but I don’t know what I’d do without her. Things are so different from a year ago and even then she had already moved… I was gone from the moment I saw her and everyday I lose myself more, but I’m happy and the only person that could ever take that away from me is her. It’s a sad thought but it’s true. People can get as close as they want to breaking us apart and lying about us to each other to make it seem like it’s all lies but we’ll bounce back just like we did this time. And honestly I don’t give a fuck what anyone says unless I hear it from her first.

I love her with all of my heart and that’s the realest thing I’ve said all year.

itstherealjay: She asked if I’m happy with our relationship...

Fri, 15 Feb 2013 19:29:05 -0500

itstherealjay:

She asked if I’m happy with our relationship today. Truth is I’m happy just to be with her but we’ve been in a tough time today. But nothing that has happened could ever make me say I don’t love her. I couldn’t bring myself to give up even if it seems like there’s nothing left. She’s the only one that can make me happy even when were not in a good situation. It seems as if she’s ready to give up but she’s still letting me decide if we try again…and I said we’ll try. I still think we can work if we work at it. We’re worth fighting and anyone who had seen us and how we were with each other at the beginning would be able to see that. I’ve given her everything and even if I’d known where we’d end up right now I’d do it over. I haven’t really been trying my hardest lately but I will now. It might be too late…but it’s still worth a try. Just have faith in me. We can get through it if she has faith in me. I still love her with all my heart.

honorized: le-mo-na-de: tallycola: slimehaus: decodethefalle...

Fri, 15 Feb 2013 13:42:56 -0500

honorized:

le-mo-na-de:

tallycola:

slimehaus:

decodethefallenmoon:

miser0:

suddengroan:

likeneelyohara:

I worked at American Apparel for two years. During the time that I worked there, the company implemented a company-wide recruitment policy where any person applying for a position must be photographed (1 headshot, 1 body shot) The actual resumes were thrown in the garbage. These photos were then sent to a company email address where someone would either give a thumbs up or down to the photographs. Staff were encouraged to recruit instore and on the street and were given a $100 bonus for every person they got approved.

Before this was implemented, all existing staff were photographed (again, 1 headshot and 1 body shot) Anyone deemed to be physically unworthy was let go from the company. Of course this wasn’t legal, however right before they started this process every employee had to sign a waiver form, that was pretty much a lot of legal gibberish, on the spot. I wanted to have a lawyer take a look at the form however I was told I had to sign it on the spot or I would be let go.

There was also a company intranet website which all employees where to check on a regular basis. This was Dov’s main line of communication to all staff. The site would have pictures of girls from the stores where he would rip them apart for having too thin eyebrows, for having “ugly make-up” or bad tattoos and piercings. They were basically publicly shamed for not looking the way he wanted to. He would also post memos saying things like “HIRE MORE ASIANS”

Most of the girls that I worked with were super young, I was the oldest in the store at 20. We even secretly employed one girl’s little sister who was only 13. A lot of the time when the guys from head office would come in they would take pictures of the girls in the store. Some of the girls wanted extra attention so they would pose pretty raunchy for them, mostly they just side boob and stuff but sometimes it got kind of weird. Also, every city with an American Apparel also has a company hotel room. Personally, I never went with them, but when the head office guys came to town they would take a few girls from the store with them for the night. I heard stories about tons of weird crap going on those nights and I know for a fact many of those girls were under 18.

I worked at AA for a year and I can verify all of this. I was a merchandiser that was let go for not being up to physical standards (but the official reason was time and attendance, when I was pulling 12 hour days 4 times a week). They had an “auditor” from corporate come into town to “audit.” She had an hour long meeting with us telling us that we needed to dress sexier and wear more heels and tights (but if we had a run in our tights we could be fired/written up). Since I was a merchandiser, there was no way I was going to be wearing heels on 12-foot ladders, lugging around mannequins all day. They told me to dye my hair and get rid of my piercings, I said no, they let go of me a few days before Christmas.

for speech class i found, interviewed, and presented a young lady that had been fired from american apparel while working under dov charney several years ago. she was fired for refusing oral sex with another woman in front of him.

she also claimed that people at her job were fired when they appeared to have gained weight.

similarly, photographer terry richardson (you may know him for his portraits of almost any celebrity you can name, like lady gaga, kanye west, the chili peppers). a model said during her shoot, he randomly whipped out his penis and started touching himself in front of her.

AA has been questioned for the ages of their models, many of which are nameless and go undisclosed. i was told that the process of selecting models for american apparel ads mainly consist of charney picking up women, bringing them home, and having them pose in garments while photographing them in his own home. there’s no proof for or against whether he asks for permission. fun stuff.

I will never step foot in this fucking store. Ever.

I am INSANELY glad I don’t own anything from that disgusting store now…

WELLP AA JUST LOST A LOYAL CUSTOMER……

I thought AA was going out of business?

now i get it why everybody is reblogging my picture…. and omg this is awful

Harsh stuff